The Energetic Universe

Ever met a complete stranger and been able to talk to them about absolutely anything?
Ever felt inexplicably drawn to someone and yet you had no idea why?
Ever started a relationship even though your instinct told you it wouldn’t work?
Ever thought someone sounded perfect but when you met them it just didn't feel right?

It’s just a matter of energy. We are all energy fields and we interact with the energy fields of others. When we meet someone and our energies are harmonious, we feel right, in balance and complete. When our energies clash, we feel disorder, discomfort and imbalance. Our inner knowing or ‘instinct’ tells us when the energies are right or wrong .. but sometimes we just don’t listen.

Dating and building relationships should be fun and interesting, not without challenges but ultimately rewarding for both individuals. However, too many bad experiences can make us cynical and create negative internal dialogue, which makes it even harder to hear what our instincts are telling us.

There's a very important reason why we need to be aware of our internal thoughts and feelings. We are electromagnetic beings and as such we attract to ourselves energetically exactly what we are focusing on. The old saying “be careful what you wish for” basically means be careful what you think about, because thoughts, just like actions, words and feelings are all energy .. and the laws of physics dictate that matter follows energy. In other words, what we focus our energy on, will materialize.

So if past experience has brought us to a point where we think that the opposite sex are all uncaring or insensitive or immature, then guess what .. that’s exactly the type of person we’ll attract into our life. Conversely, if we are in a good space and our thoughts about relationship are positive and clear, then we will materialize just what we focus on. The power really does lie with us.

Ultimately we all have to be aware of our thoughts and actions if we want to create the world and the relationships that we truly desire. We all have the potential to do this but how many of us constantly monitor ourselves to ensure we are always sending out the right signals? To put it mildly, its a challenge.

If we've had some less than positive experiences in our dating career and we're perhaps feeling a little jaded and cynical, take note. Our negative thoughts may prevent us from seeing a golden opportunity, or worse still, may result in us ignoring sound advice (either external or internal) and instead attracting the kind of partner we don't need in our life right now.

Its important that we're in the right frame of mind to benefit from the guidance on offer. If our outlook is bleak, the chances are it will rain! So here's some advice - forget the past, its gone and there's nothing we can do except learn from it. Be open to the Now and embrace everything life has in store. We all deserve the very best and the only thing that can stop us from getting it is us. 


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