At alovingspace.com we don't just help you to get together, we help you to stay together. Most relationships break down because of a lack of understanding and self-awareness, so we use a variety of modern and ancient tools to help you recognize your patterns of behavior - many of which will be unconscious. The result is that you will have a better relationship with yourself as well as your partner.
   
We provide practical, astrological and numerological guidance to give you a deeper insight into yourself and potential partners, and a clearer understanding of the sort of relationship you might have with them.  Rather than asking you to rely on any one individual's subjective view of themselves, we provide Birth Chart reports to reveal their true nature.  We also cross-reference your Birth Chart with theirs to produce a Compatibility Report highlighting all the potential areas of harmony and conflict, and we provide a Karmic Soulmate Report to identify any important reasons for that person to be in your life.  Armed with this impartial information you can make better informed decisions about the direction of your love life. 

Why do you use tools such as astrology?
It's important to be objective. Most dating sites are full of self-written profiles, but since it is human nature only to reveal the parts of our character which we like or we are comfortable with, those profiles don't reveal the whole picture. The trouble with that, of course, is that when you get into a relationship with someone, you're going to get the whole package, not just the pretty bits, so it's essential that you know the whole person. 

Why should I believe the information you provide?
Tools like astrology might seem frivolous on the surface but, used correctly, they point at the truth and invite us to take a good hard look at ourselves. They help us to recognize and accept aspects of our character which we have unknowingly denied, hidden or suppressed, and as such they lead us to being more comfortable with ourself and consequently with our partner. The aim of this site is not to have you believe our information, but simply to apply it to yourself and then be really honest about whether you recognize any of your characteristics. You can use the information, not just to get a much deeper of understanding of yourself, but also to really understand any partner you meet

 

When trends, patterns and events which are linked to certain planetary alignments have been shown to repeat themselves over thousands of years, it makes sense to be aware of them and to utilize this knowledge for our benefit. Understanding how the various alignments impact on an individual’s behavior allows us to understand that individual more deeply. 

 

Astrology looks at the correlation between events and sequences on earth and the patterns of the planets. These trends, founded on the law of cause and effect, were first researched some 4,000 years ago and the initial findings paved the way for the two distinct practices we know today as astrology and astronomy. Astrology forms the basis of character analysis and future prediction based on potential. Astronomy is the study of the stars. 

 

What does a birth chart report reveal? 

The birth chart reveals all the specific characteristics of the individual - their strengths, weaknesses, motivations, natural tendencies, viewpoints and so on. It provides a deep insight into the core make-up and essence of that person, a view which they themselves may no longer be aware of because the process of life has gradually blinded them to their own true nature. As such it offers clarity.

 

The horoscope is a foretelling of what will occur at a particular point in time based on the trends that have repeated themselves for thousands of years. These trends relate to certain planetary positions and therefore when those positions repeat themselves, so do the trends. Sun sign horoscopes, such as those in national newspapers, are naturally more vague as they are not based on an individual's specific birth details - they just relate to the sign, i.e. Scorpio, Capricorn, Virgo etc. Our personalized horoscopes, however, are uniquely tailored according to your exact date, time and place of birth and consequently are far more precise.

 

A synastry or 'Compatibility' report takes the birth charts of two individuals and compares certain points between the two. It looks for aspects and connections between their birth planets and outlines where the planets of one chart would rest in the other. From these calculations it creates a synastry report which highlights all the harmonious and conflicting areas between the two individuals. 

 

There is an energy, an intelligence that runs the universe - it is pure consciousness. That same intelligence which tells the flowers when to bloom, birds when to migrate, animals when to hibernate and every living thing how to be, flows in, around and through you. You are that intelligence and as such you are perfect and divine. Our minds, however, have learned fears and doubts which block the free flow of this energy and therefore become the biggest obstacle in our lives. 

On this site, one of the search options we offer (the Universal Search) bypasses the mind's requirements so that you can be presented with individual's who are important to your life and your growth. Your mind may not like what is offered but those individuals will bring you valuable lessons. When we bypass the mind, we live in the present and allow our energy to flow unhindered. Life can then bring us exactly what we need. 

 

We are all born with unique gifts.  Some of us are artistic, some great communicators, some very compassionate, some athletic, some visionary, some spiritual and so the list goes on. These gifts can lead to logical conclusions. The artistic person might become an artist or designer;  the communicator could become a novelist, orator or teacher; the compassionate person might end up nursing, healing or counseling; the athlete might excel in the world of sport; the visionary could go into government or become a liberator; the spiritual person might develop psychically, heal, teach, motivate or lead a community. We all have that natural potential, however, we also have free will. Potential will highlight our natural abilities and gifts, but just because someone grows to be 7 feet tall, it doesn't mean they're definitely going to be a basketball player.

 

Numerology is a twin subject to astrology. The astrologer studies the movements of the planets and stars across the universal ocean. The numerologist studies the numbers in the individual's date of birth and their name. Numerology has its origins in the ancient Mandarin language but has been studied by all the leading civilizations and can be found in ancient books of wisdom. The numbers in your date of birth will explain what your life is about, what is happening now, what will happen in the future, what lessons you have to learn, the problems you are likely to face and how best to deal with them in order to make progress. Numerology offers great insight into your character and can help you to align more naturally with your gifts and talents.