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ARIES + THE 12 SIGNS
Aries + Aries
Works Best When: Aries plus Aries works best when ego’s and anger are not out of control, There has to be a sense of unity and a common goal for this to work.
Wow Factor: They both have a wild animal inside that is waiting to be unleashed. The good news is that their Aries partner can light their fire with ease. Add the fact that they both enjoy the same things: adventure, variety and an intensity when it comes to sex, and so connecting is not a problem. The fact that they both love to argue only makes the make-up sex way over the top.
Be Aware: This union can turn into a wrestling match if each of them vie for dominance. They both have an assertive streak, so if they can’t communicate and compromise, then no one will be happy.
The Aries Lesson: Passion is the savior of this union, for the Aries need for dominance must be overcome as both parties vie early on in sexual gymnastics. The more intense the union the easier it is to surrender to passion that takes them beyond control and into their intuitive emotions. When this happens they learn how to give and take, and to experience the emotions of power and surrender.
Aries + Taurus
Works Best When: Aries plus Taurus works best when both parties are not cut off from their emotions: the Aries is easily lost in ideals while the Taurus can get stuck in acquiring “things” for security.
Wow Factor: This is magnetically one of the most compatible of combinations when it comes to lust and sex. Desires are strong and both signs have an insatiable desire for love and sex. So addictive behavior is not unusual; they can't want to be together even when it’s negative and destructive. They both have instincts capable of reaching the deep hidden sides in each other, the sides that needs attention and nurturing. So if their attraction comes with basic common sense, a job and the ability to handle life’s challenges, then it could work and work well, making them both feel connected and happy.
Be Aware: The danger is excess, they both can feed the side of the other that needs control, not encouragement. So if they have trouble with limits themselves, this combination is not for them.
The Aries Lesson: The strong sexual drive of the Aries meets the yielding, seductive desires of the Taurus and its need to conquer is rendered useless --there is no resistance. The willing warm embrace of a Taurus teaches the Aries that there is power in voluntary submission, for the Taurus is not less because of it; on the contrary, it is the fastest way to the Aries heart. With the Taurus, the Aries finds a safe place to surrender and the experience is transforming.
The Taurus Lesson: When the Taurus meets the Aries in the sexual dance, there is no ego, no struggle for power; the Taurus relinquishes this immediately, and instead offers the Aries intimacy. There is nothing more fearful and exciting for the Aries to accept and the Taurus senses its newfound power. With tension and passion high, the Taurus learns quickly that by asserting itself through words and actions, the more gratifying the sexual experience becomes for both parties – in fact, the union is one of the best in the zodiac.
Aries + Gemini
Works Best When: Aries plus Gemini works well when reality is a primary part of the relationship and there is enough romance to keep both of their idealistic natures happy.
Wow Factor: Talk about adventure and versatility, the Aries has hit the jackpot here. The Gemini will love the fact that the Aries is action oriented, that they like to do things, and have sex while they’re doing them. The Gemini also offers the Aries the mental stimulation it loves. In the beginning romance is out of control and the need to have beautiful, endless sex and pleasure becomes the obsession of both parties. Unfortunately it is almost impossible to sustain this high, and as reality sets in, the fire begins to die. If they both are capable of communicating their emotions and they have some problem-solving skills, then they can sustain the fall from grace and perfection and begin to build a strong foundation.
Be Aware: Ego’s and reality are the threat here. If they both need to escape they could keep their lives so busy that they'll never have time to see each other.
The Aries Lesson: The Aries may enter the bedroom relying on the strength of its passion and natural charisma, however, up against the Gemini shield, it could fall short. For these two to connect, the Aries must move from intensity to versatility and get some of its excitement through adventure and experimentation. Can the Aries lighten up and play with sex? The Gemini can.
The Gemini Lesson: With fantasy and versatility the gifts of the Gemini, its lesson is to face the raw and real emotions of an Aries without running away. Gemini’s rely on their technique and ability to perform more than their heart, and although those things are certainly appreciated by their partners, real feelings need to enter the picture if the relationship is to move forward.
Aries + Cancer
Works Best When: Aries plus Cancer works best when the protective side of both signs is balanced with the courage to take risks and open up emotionally.
Wow Factor: There is a soul mate quality here when it works. The fact that little is said but a lot is understood makes this connection powerful. The Aries should get plenty of nurturing and the Cancer will secure a sense of safety and protection. When the Cancer trusts its partner, it will reveal its darker and kinkier side when it comes to sex. If the Aries is not a prude, then it will enjoy this adventure into someone else’s fantasies. The connection has to happen in the ether, if their ideals and imagination clash then it won’t work. But if they don't clash then love can last forever.
Be Aware: If the Cancer is closed down emotionally or too needy and the Aries is too dominant, then there will be control and even abuse issues here.
The Aries Lesson: The chaos of emotions, the mystery of instinct and the unknown, this undefined power is what connects an Aries and Cancer to the sexual dance. The Aries must learn that mystery is not conquered through force, or by demanding actions or proof of affection. What needs to happen is the relinquishing of control to the spiritual and emotional energy and let it lead the way.
The Cancer Lesson: Cancer’s tend to identify with their weaknesses and not their strengths and so they need to learn to see their feelings as something with value. The Aries is attracted to their emotional intensity and once the Aries has been enchanted by their aura, they stay close and learn how to feel without having to express it in words or provide an explanation. This teaches the Cancer that its emotional side is truly powerful.
Aries + Leo
Works Best When: Aries plus Leo works best when emotions are valued and one's sex life has a priority equal to career and success.
Wow Factor: With charisma at a dangerous level, sparks will definitely fly. The Aries and Leo share similar qualities and ideals; success is important as so is their love of adventure, mystery, knowledge and sex. If it works these two won’t get out of bed, instead they’ll ignite each other’s erogenous zones over and over again until someone yells enough. The Leo’s ability to surrender to the Aries' wishes, and the Aries' need to be taken deeper into forbidden pleasures gives these two an exciting sex life.
Be Aware: When both signs compete for power and attention, emotions and sex are often forgotten in the battle. If one person represses their emotions, then the other may act out for attention.
The Aries Lesson: The fire in both the Aries and Leo can either increase passion or put it out. The Aries is taken by surprise as the Leo’s strength and power is transformed into a gentle loving expression once the lights go out. The Aries learns tthat you don’t have to display your strength, especially when you are seeking intimacy. In fact, intimacy is not possible unless one can be vulnerable.
The Leo Lesson: The Leo is drawn to the Aries because of its connection to the heart. It’s own struggle to achieve in the world has left it disconnected from its emotions. However, faced with the challenge of passion, the Leo reconnects to its lusty nature and forgets about perfection and appearance as it responds to nature and its needs. Thus the Aries helps the Leo rediscover the power of its own heart.
Aries + Virgo
Works Best When: Aries plus Virgo works best when they share the same values and ideals, if they don’t it could lead to problems once the relationship is established.
Wow Factor: The Virgo is grounded and sexy, innocent and erotic and this combination turns an Aries on. The Aries has the best of heaven and earth with a Virgo, the pure and the taboo, and so sex creates the Wow factor. Passion is increased by their differences, which is present because of culture, race, or social circumstances. The barriers created by society to block this attraction, only makes it more desirable. Yes, we all know that the forbidden has a big Wow.
Be Aware: Passion can turn to criticism and control if these two do not have more than their differences to keep them together. What attracts them at first, can become the source of the anger, and problems later on.
The Aries Lesson: The Virgo lures the Aries with its sexy innocence. Connected to its body through passion and desire, it finds it easy to ignite the same in the Aries. Unable to set boundaries in passion, the Aries is taken beyond its comfort zone and the experiences it has can be both positive and negative. The Aries learns that when you share intimacy with someone who has a different set of values and boundaries, you are putting yourself at risk.
The Virgo Lesson: The Virgo will be tempted to take the Aries out of its high ideals and have it experience some down and dirty sex; lust for lust sake. Not a bad thing, in fact it may be just what they both need to connect more deeply to their core. The Virgo will learn that you can’t destroy ideals when they exist within your heart.
Aries + Libra
Works Best When: Aries plus Libra works the best when the Libra has a strong sense of self and doesn’t just provide money, luxury and/or beauty to the union. There has to be truth and inspiration to hold the interest of the Aries.
Wow Factor: Libra is the opposite sign from Aries and so there is an instant feeling of being connected, especially sexually. They can desire each other intensely, which brings this relationship to a big Wow. Libra energy excites the Aries past the bedroom, when there is a sense of personal truth to share and a strong individuality to challenge them. Aries love beauty and Libra represents it, so for the short term, beauty can work, both mesmerizing the Aries and keeping it in awe. However, it is the strength of Libra and its sense of leadership and knowledge that will really turn the Aries on. The ability to share ideas and ideals, the love of creativity and the arts, these are common interests that create a Wow in this relationship.
Be Aware: This can easily be a fabulously superficial union, with image and social outings being more important than truth. If that’s all they want then they should go for it.
The Aries Lesson: The Aries is challenged by the Libra to see more than its own point of view. It is difficult for the Aries to come out of itself and see the world from someone else’s perspective; however, once they do they realize that they will make better choices when it comes to love and life if they just slow down and include how others feel.
The Libra Lesson: The Libra is challenged by the Aries to take a risk and choose either to please or be pleased. The ability of the Aries to be selfish teaches the Libra the beauty and justice of self-fulfillment – by taking care of yourself you are actually better prepared and more capable of taking care of others and their needs.
Aries + Scorpio
Works Best When: Aries plus Scorpio works best when the Scorpio doesn’t try and control the Aries through criticizing it or putting it down. The Aries needs inspiration not anger.
Wow Factor: Sex is wow, they both live for it. Raw, real and full of intensity, it doesn’t get better than this when it works. Passion is strong and the desire to conquer and dominate each other is present. If they can accept these intense feelings and use them in their sex play, then it all works. This combination tends to release inhibitions and ignite a fire that keeps burning. The real glue in this relationship is a shared vision and values, if this is present then the Wow factor goes up.
Be Aware: If the heart is not involved there will be endless arguments and a struggle for power and control.
The Aries Lesson: The Aries is amazed at the strength of the Scorpio in and out of the bedroom. No matter how vulnerable the moment, the Scorpio is in touch with its core instincts and awareness. The Aries learns that it has depleted its strength by having to be good and perfect and that it is through responding to all of oneself that we truly become strong enough to change others and the world.
The Scorpio Lesson: The Scorpio loves the fire and the idealistic nature of the Aries. It sees the purity of its past; the trust and love of innocence. When they exhaust their passion and lie side by side satisfied and exposed, the Scorpio realizes how wonderful it is to be fragile, and open to love. The Aries divine trust in love inspires it to love again.
Aries + Sagittarius
Works The Best When: Aries plus Sagittarius works best when both signs have the courage and wisdom to not want to win by feeling superior or putting someone else down.
Wow Factor: Sagittarians have a sexy mind, one that cuts through the false and reveals the truth, often with wit and humor. They can go right for the heart of something and someone, and so they are able to quickly pierce the heart of our Aries with cupid’s arrow. When there’s chemistry, the rest can be worked out because both signs are fire and they share similar joys. There is a love of knowledge, adventure, mystery, travel, differences and nature. So if things are going well, they shouldn't be afraid to bring it all out in the open and make love al fresco.
Be Aware: Ego’s are strong in fire signs and so for these two to get along, the ego needs to be tamed. If not this relationship will be competitive and disappointment will follow the initial fantasy.
The Aries Lesson: The Aries learns staying power from the Sagittarius. It knows how to begin a love affair with lights blaring and trumpets playing, the problem is with reality, when it sets in and ideals become tarnished, the Aries wants to withdraw. Well, the Sagittarius won’t let it happen; in fact, it will delve into its fears and challenge the Aries to go beyond disappointment to a new and stronger truth.
The Sagittarius Lesson: The Sagittarius learns from the Aries the importance of opening up to life and intimacy rather than resisting it. The Sagittarius has taught itself to protect its beliefs, and in so doing has over-protected its heart. Faced with an offer of passion without pressure or control, the Sadge will surrender.
Aries + Capricorn
Works the Best When: Aries plus Capricorn works best when they share a common vision and goal. When they don’t, it creates too much competition and adversity.
Wow Factor: The Wow factor comes when these two can by-pass their desire for control and their strong egos. If both parties share the same ideals and a vision of how they want to live their life then their differences won’t matter. Both are instinctual, both put their best face forward and hide their fears, so there is respect for each other's strengths and ideas, and yes, there is emotion. To release it there must be faith in each other; without this nothing works. When these two connect, however, there is magic and they can look forward to long lovely nights with soft music and the feeling of belonging to someone forever.
Be Aware: There could be competitiveness here, or one person is stuck or feels paralyzed and so they hold the other back. If they don’t support and add to each other's life, feelings will fade or disappear.
The Aries Lesson: The Aries sees that the Capricorn takes its time and enjoys all that is going on. It knows how to be in the moment and not lost in its imagination. The Aries is eager to make love and reach climax; the Capricorn allows the moment to unfold and it enjoys each nuance and pleasure. The Aries learns the power of being in the now.
The Capricorn Lesson: The Aries trusts its first impulse, the Capricorn wants to test it or wait before it responds. So timing could be off initially, however, if the magic is here, the Capricorn is capable of throwing away caution and taking a leap of faith. The Aries reminds the Capricorn that it is one's instincts that need to be trusted, not one's mind.
Aries + Aquarius
Works Best When: Aries plus Aquarius works best when both signs give up the need to rescue each other or someone else, and begin to demand that others meet their strength.
Wow Factor: There is a Wow factor here, and when there is a connection sparks do fly. Both signs have magic and it is seen instantly – if it’s not present at the first hello forget it – move on. The Aquarius will inspire the Aries, and help them follow their dreams. The Aries will make the Aquarius feel loved and protected. Yes, there is a lofty side here but what truly glues these to together is passion -- no prisoners taken. Both have the capacity to push the other beyond fears and limitations and make a soul connection. And when the passion is turned on, it stays on, hands are never kept to themselves, and no place is safe when it comes to their need to release the sexual tension.
Be Aware: When love is not a priority then this combination will fight and argue to the end of time. Both signs can be judgmental and critical and if this comes out more than passion and love then there’s not much to hold it together.
The Aries Lesson: The Aries gains a great gift when it falls for the Aquarius—it learns there is nothing wrong with expressing your needs, with asking for what you want, for going after your passion with honesty and vulnerability, but when it’s over, when the lights go back on -- take yourself back and become emotionally independent.
The Aquarius Lesson: The Aquarius can get lost in helping others achieve their goals, and forget about their own dreams. What it learns from their lover is that one has to be both selfish and selfless, and when they find a way to balance these two things in their sex life, then they can find balance in their whole life and be happy.
Aries + Pisces
Works Best When: Aries plus Pisces works when both signs have confidence and faith in themselves and their dreams; without confidence they could be victims.
Wow Factor: Sensitivity, spontaneity, passion and intuition all come together with this combination. When it works—it’s magic. There could be a soul mate connection with a strong spiritual cord between these two. Differences are a turn on, and those include age, race and culture. This union can be strong and dramatic or soft and subtle or a bit of both. And yes, little gestures are appreciated as much as the big displays of affection: the light touch, the look in the eyes, a hand on their shoulder or the knock down roll on the floor kind of passion. It’s up to them. It’s everything and anything they want it to be.
Be Aware: If the Pisces feels like a victim of the world, and the Aries is into rescuing its lovers, then there will be a co-dependency in this relationship. If it doesn’t work as lovers, they could be good friends.
The Aries Lesson: .The Aries always feels the need to prove itself, even in sex. It wants to make sure its partner is happy before it takes care of itself. What it learns from the Pisces is that when sex is great, there is no division between their pleasure and their partner's. Pleasure has the capacity to take care of everyone simultaneously – they just need to shed the barriers
The Pisces Lesson: The Pisces has a silent strength: the Aries is seeking to show it for attention. When the Pisces interacts sexually with the Aries, it realizes that owning one's strength is a turn on, and that to make sex interesting, one has to be both aggressive and passive. Mix it up and it's really fun.
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