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Aries:

An Aries is attracted to excitement and challenges. Move forward boldly, with a strong sense of humor and extremely flexible plans. If your Aries wants to take the lead step back and allow them that lead. Have an upbeat attitude, be playful and, most important, be spontaneous. Keep your notes intriguing, lively and short.
Talk about adventures and escapades (past, present and those you hope to pursue in the future) sports, creative ideas.

Taurus:

The best approach with a Taurus is slow and steady. Don't expect a whirlwind romance or even an instant reply to an email. Taurus needs to do things in their own way and in their own time. They tend to be sensible and enjoy learning about a potential love interest. Show your serious, patient, stable side. Make your first connection subtle but sincere.
Talk about shared interests, home, the past, your future plans.

Gemini:

Gemini's love communicating and will appreciate a jaunty approach that stimulates their intellect and their love of drama. A Gemini loves to be amused and will deeply appreciate a sense of humor and a connection with someone that gets their mind going. Expect to do a LOT of emailing and chatting and talking as you get to know this delightful being.
Talk about interesting ideas, games, adventures, shared intellectual interests.

Cancer:

While it is easy to approach a Cancer, (they adore making people comfortable around them) it is another story altogether to connect on a deeply personal level until the Cancer feels they can trust you. Therefore, approaching a Cancer is best done with honesty and sincerity. Share bits of your past, talk about your home life, parents and growing up. Watch for common bonds and enhance them. Allow your Cancer the time to thoroughly get to know you.
Talk about home, travels, feelings, memories and plans for the future.

Leo:

Flattery - if truly sincere - is one way to capture a Leo's attention. Take time to find out what they are interested in and concentrate on those interests. Leo loves drama so make your approach a touch dramatic. Play up your strengths but don't forget theirs. A little pampering and ego stroking never hurts. Be eager to talk over and listen to their life story. Leo's also love to laugh - apply your best sense of humor.
Talk about shared interests, their interests, adventuresome and fun exploits.

Virgo:

Approach a Virgo sensibly. Be open, be honest but keep your energy calm and grounded. Talk about yourself - holding down the self praise and horn tooting. Virgo's are eager to help and assist when they feel they are truly needed. Underneath their quiet exterior Virgo's can be sensitive and poetic souls. A soft, gentle approach with extreme sincerity is the only sure way to reach that inner poet.
Talk about your lives, everyday shared interests, the future and common causes.

Libra:

Libra's love a balanced, artistic, creative connection that bypasses anything crude or blatantly obvious. They are, for the most part, peace loving beings who enjoy soothing atmospheres and artistic personalities. Finding a common ground or shared talent is a perfect ice breaker. Expect to be pressed into taking the lead - albeit gently - as Libras can be hesitant and uncomfortable when calling the shots.
Talk about current movies, music, creative endeavors you have pursued, dining experiences.

Scorpio:

It isn't easy approaching a Scorpio simply because they keep their truest essence well hidden and it can be difficult to know where you stand - even in an initial encounter. The only sure way to move ahead is with complete honesty (about what you're looking for and why) and with an open mind. Scorpios love being intrigued and they are drawn to mysteries but will dart away if they sense any deceit.
Talk about shared interests - especially unusual ones, your observations on daily life, philosophy and esoteric interests.

Sagittarius:

Sagittarius's are open minded, generally friendly with a strong sense of humor and approaching them is as simple as writing about a shared interest. An upbeat attitude is attractive and a willingness to add your input to one of their current dilemmas is helpful - just don't expect your advice to be taken and used. Sagittarius loves a unique and playful personality. Let your true self show through.
Talk about anything and everything making sure you pick up on their interests. Avoid complaining about your everyday problems, that's the fastest way to shut down an initial connection.

Capricorn:

A Capricorn is impressed by personal power, a strong sense of discipline and responsibility. Your first approach should quickly highlight those factors in your personality and your life. A Capricorn tends to be no-nonsense - at least in the beginning - and they need to see the purpose behind pursuing a potential partnership. Allow the Capricorn to guide things along.
Talk about goals (past and present), future plans (on a personal level), common interests and shared life dreams.

Aquarius:

Let your unique self shine through when you approach an Aquarius. The more individual your interests the better. An Aquarius is deeply interested in people, the world around them and possibilities for the future. If you have humanitarian or eclectic interests (even if you don't share common causes) be eager to talk about them. A friendly, witty approach works wonders.
Talk about the future, the past, ideals and unique personal interests.

Pisces:

Pisces are attracted to deep personalities and sensitivity. They like talking about emotions and feelings, dreams and possibilities. Explain and describe yourself focusing on how you relate emotionally to matters. Focus on any ideals, beliefs or convictions you may share and allow them to strengthen the bond growing between you. If you have literary, poetic or artistic talents or interests be sure to highlight them as Pisces love creative souls.
Talk about life, philosophies, poetry, possibilities, emotions and the past.

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